You earned the gold; now use it to reward yourself.
Keep a record of your reflections for all of your purchases and evaluate how you feel about the incentives you've earned thus far.
Here is where you can monitor the other party members in your life and their progress thus far.
The best place to treat yourself. You can choose a selection of incentives you wish to get after finishing a big project, establishing a habit, or staying on track with your reflections.