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What is it & Why is it important

• On My Own Terms is a meditative reflection on personal values and social performance
• The way others see us can cloud our understandings of what we actually find important
• Players get a more nuanced view of their own motivations and approaches to life
• People learn to perceive the world in ways that bundle together expectations and inspirations. By pulling them apart, they get a clearer picture of how they want to approach their lives.
• On My Own Terms offers you the chance to sort out what aspects of being a certain way are actually inspiring to you.

How to use it / The Rules.

Think of a way you try to be. Maybe you try to be generous, kind, helpful or a good listener. Whatever it is, write it down here:

Using the word above, answer these questions one at a time. (slowly works best)

1. To seem this way to others, I've been:

2. But on my own terms, being this way means being:

3. And people I admire for being this way inspire me because they are: