在溝通當中, 有的時候自己其實不是主角。 這是什麼意思呢? 今天要來分享一個parenting tip, 但在生活職場當中也蠻有價值的喔。

“You cannot talk to me like this” vs. “You cannot talk like this to me or anyone”

You cannot talk to me like this

• This feels personal
• personal battle

You cannot talk like this to me or anyone

• It is not a battle between you and your child, it is the battle between your child and the person you are raising them to be
• stay above you
• serve as a guide

You need to find a way to express your feeling. Take your time. We can talk about it later.

Preference:

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