在8月EP Podcast, 每週二單元會來討論如何跟不同的溝通風格來溝通. 跟以往不一樣的是我們將會著重在該注意什麼? 該怎麼做心理準備?

Episode 229 - Original Expressive Overview

Key takeaways:

Spontaneous 非籌劃安排的 vs. Impulsive 衝動的

Personal approval (validation)

Goal oriented and not detail oriented

Prepare mentally

So much emotion and so many changes

• Be patient - Be patient with the questions and speeches. They will pass.
• What to absorb - Take the positive energy from an expressive
• What not to absorb - Do not absorb the negative energy from an expressive, but beware of what my come after (under pressure they can be disorganized and disoriented)

Communication

• Give affirmations and positive feedback (approval)
  • Expressive need to feel appreciated or heard, if they don’t feel heard they may try to be more of a center of attention or try to seek validation
• Give more context and details of the plan
  • Here is an example I was talking about…
• Get feedback throughout your presentation
  • Do you have any questions so far?
  • Tell me what you are thinking right now.
• Ask specific questions to help the expressive to expressive logically
  • Could you give me some examples?
  • When you say ____, what do you mean? Could you elaborate?
• Be “flexible” with your deadlines
  • Expressives can be overly optimistic about timelines
  • They follow gut intuition, so they may follow new paths not previously discussed