我們在乎的, 對方不一定在乎. 但當對方很冷淡的回應, 要如何面對呢?
In life, you hear teenagers say this a lot. “I don’t care.”
At work, you may not hear it outright but it doesn’t mean what you care about gets the same amount of love care from the other side.
How do you respond to this kind of “indifferent”?
Serious way
- Accept someone’s lack of caring and make a decision yourself.
- “Ok cool, let’s plan for 8pm then.”
- “Sounds good, I’ll let you know what I decide later.”
- Be straightforward and let someone know you do care.
- “This is important to me.”
- “I really do care about this and I wish you did too.”
- “This matters to me!”
- Focus on explaining the way you feel rather than focusing on their behavior. This is a good way to tread lightly in a conversation without offending the other person.
- Find out what motivates someone to get to know them.