****❌ “You’re overacting right now.” “You’re crazy”
✅ I can tell this is important to both of us, and we just see it differently.
❌ “You just don’t know the facts”
✅ We’re talking in circles and clearly don’t agree. Can you talk me through where you’re coming from.
❌ “ If I were you I would do x.”
✅ I can see why you would think or feel that way.
❌ “You did this because of x”
✅ Help me understand your thought process on this more clearly.