從小上語言課程，我們習慣用成績與對錯來決定自己的程度。但在實際的溝通上，事情往往不是這麼的黑與白。那到底什麼是讓溝通更順利的原則?

Positive effect, negative effect > right or wrong (正面 vs. 負面 > 對 vs. 錯)

At any given point, if you are not sure what to say, ask yourself

• What would I say now so this engagement can be positive?

For example: 社交英語

Situation: Not feeling the chitchat but you know you have to network.

Ask yourself: What would I say now so this engagement can be positive?

Consideration of actions:

I don’t really want to talk much because my energy would be depleted.

I still need to make some connections but maybe just 3 contacts.

What would I say now so this engagement can be positive?

Ask questions and show interest!