11/18/2025
I recently read a poem about the joys of motherhood.
And while most moms read that and feel emotional,
I felt a sense of emptiness.
I felt like that poem wasn't about me.
Because sometimes, I dread taking care of her.
Most of the time, I do.
When she cries at night,
I think:
"Why is she waking up?"
"I’m so tired."
"This is so unfair."
I spent so much of my life looking forward to motherhood,
Daydreaming about the moments I now get for free.
But now that it's real,
I watch myself as I let the time slip by.
Every day, I am exhausted.
I let the little moments I used to be so excited for slip by.