Inspiration: https://www.magnetstreet.com/wedding-planning-checklist

My Edited Timeline

8 months away

1. Set a date
2. Define the type of marriage you can afford
3. Visit each other's churches casually

7 months away

1. Prime your parents
2. Knocking

6 months away

1. Get marriage list
2. Meet pastors & counsellors
3. Pick and lock down a date

5 months away

1. Scout for accommodation - inform agents/families/friends about interest
2. Buy traditional wedding echolac & in-law items
3. Decide on the guest list

4 months away

1. Buy all engagement list items
2. Choose engagement/wedding souvenir items