My Big Sex Toy List can be overwhelming, here are some items I think are really cool <3

Sex Toys

Sex toys can be a great way to have gender affirming sex and pleasure! Below I have listed the major categories of sex toys and some of my favorite examples of each (and some blurbs why in the context of trans sex), but there is always lots to explore :) - Maeve

Vibrators

Vibrators are great and can be used in ways out of the design - which can be great for those with bottom dysphoria (or just those looking to explore).

My personal favorites are wand vibrators like the hitachi magic wand as they can be used in so many different ways. Their biggest assets are:

  1. The wide head - makes it very easy to use with a partner (e.g. between each other) or to grind against (even off!).
  2. The power can often deliver pleasure other toys or manual sex cannot. I have used magic wands completely off to the side of genitalia and there has still been enough sensation for orgasm for people with bottom dysphoria (or even just high sensitivity). I have used the magic wand on my taint and orgasmed that way, which is something I have never done with any other toy.
  3. The handle makes the toy ergonomic by allowing lots of different positions between partners - or alone.

Harnesses

Harnesses can be a great form of gender affirmation and euphoria for many trans people. They can provide an outlet for those with bottom dysphoria (regardless of genitalia) to play a more active and toppy role in sex. It is also really powerful and fun to choose your own harnesses and toys! :)

Hip Harness

The classic harness which people think of which work really well for people with vulvas (can work for people with penises, just less options). There are two main types within this: underwear harnesses and strap style harnesses.

Thigh Harnesses

My favorite type of harness and it is completely genital neutral because it is usually worn just above the knee!

It gives you more control, power, and flexibility for positioning on your body (big plus for anal and when working with different sized partners) when compared to the hip harness. Also, if you are on top of your partner while using the thigh harness it puts you it puts you in the perfect position to pin them down with tons of leverage but also to be intimate and make eye contact, whatever the vibe is :).