# Names Age Occupation Hardest Decision Lesson from hardships Advise for 20 year old
1 Najam 60+ Construction Shadi Gratitude, struggled a lot financially. Sabr, do not rush.
2 Abdul Haq 55 Solar Panel Business whatever you do, do it consistently.
3 Khan 55 Security Guard Dost (Dayanatdaar, wafadar, sacha, tabedaar) Most valuable thing is trust.
4 Newspaper guy, selling next to Shezan DHA 1, H block 50 Vendor Didn’t share anything. Seemed quite depressed and frustrated. Didn’t even answer basic questions. Whoever is reading this, keep him in your prayers. May Allah make things easy for him. Ameen
5 Waiter (name hidden) 23 Waiter Quit drinking, and biking Its not worth the risk, had a major accident at a young age.
6 Asad 40 Manager Admin To end his love marriage Responsibility Do Business
7 Aun Naqvi 26 Sales Leaving MCJ Consistency Always respect parent
8 Shehbaz 34 Admin To live without his parents, after they died Misses his parents and advises others to obey and respect theirs. Respect your parents.
9 Shamraiz 22 Software Engineer turning down a job offer, as wanted to do business, do not want to switch, afraid of new job pressure. new job offered more then double of current salary Repeating intermediate, no university admission, facing family pressure Step into the industry, don’t take emotional decisions
10 Syed Arhum Asad 23 Software Engineer Leaving a job opportunity in another city, didn’t want to switch field. Working under a project manager in the last 3 months Challenges equal lessons
11 Hubdar Ali 26 Software Engineer No difficult decision No major hardships faced Step into the industry
12 Ali Abbas 22 CS Student No difficult decision Repeating intermediate, no university admission, family pressure Don’t take things too seriously, be stress-free
13 Muaaz 24 Software Engineer Wanted to do business but family forced him into job, even he started his buisness of water distribution but family looking down upon him as he used to deliver water sometimes by himself Wanted to do business but family forced him into job, even he started his buisness of water distribution but family looking down upon him as he used to deliver water sometimes by himself Balance deen with dunya
14 Mubashir 26 Software Engineer No difficult decision Was not serious in university, first 2 semsters were difficult Do business
15 Sajjad khan 66 Finance Betioon ki shadi Job struggles Accept reality, and work hard
16 Muhammad bashir 80 Worked in a lot of fields, no specifics No difficult decision Never been this sick but for past 3 months its been been a bit too much, cough and respiratory issues
Earn halal, eat halal
17 Ashraf 40 Cashier No difficult decision, mostly family took decisions on his behalf His son declared died, (was actually fainted)
Do business
18 Zafar Paracha 80 Acknowledge being useless in life, being of no use this old
Bachoon ko pardes bhejna
Study
19 Zulfiqar, has 10 kids 32k salary 42 Security guard No difficult decision Struggling and acknowledging it is the only way to live
Trust Allah
20 Salman Rafiq 60s Professor Had to leave USA to serve Pakistan We have abandoned books; we should read and write more. Help each other.