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**Loveseat (**or *Peace Talk) *****are the boarding & flight procedure for potentially sensitive conversations. You can click here to for an overarching view of when to talk about what (Love Seat vs. Nightly Check-In vs. Peace Talk).
Love Seat (unlike Peace Talk) is a highly structured conversation- including several exercises in consciousness. Set aside from 30 to 60 minutes. Ideally, go from Step 1 to Step 12, just as outlined. If inspired, however, use any of these sections ala cart (stand alone), or skip sections you're inspired to skip (for now).
Important Note: Until you are familiar with this, please pick a smaller issue to practice with i.e. leaving your socks on the floor etc. Keep it small. Keep it to one issue i.e. just the socks. Do not let it escalate to another issue.
Partner “A” is the person bringing the issue.
Here’s your checklist: ___ Pre-breakthrough work i.e. a walk, journaling, praying etc. (Click here fore more ideas). ___ Determination that this is one specific issue vs. two, three, all bunched up. ___ U.S.A. request planned (Unloaded, Specific, Affirmative). ___ Optional “Shame filter thinner” prepared and/or planned.
___ Personal mantra check-in: I recognize that this Loveseat is not a tool to assist me in venting. It is also not a tool to assist me in getting my loved one to change. Loveseat is to increase accountability and to assist my loved one and me in finding our way back to each other’s hearts.
___ Yes ___No (If "Yes", you're ready for the next step, “Enrollment”).