Lets take a look into the future and describe the Victoria of 2 years from now in an ideal situation.
its 2023, January, and I am 21. I graduated college in 2022 after winter quarter and spent spring quarter fine-tuning my skills in computational linguistics. It payed off, and I am now an engineer and natural language specialist at a startup working with an AI system that does natural language processing. I've been with them for about 6 months and love (almost) every second of my work. I often get in flow doing projects and enjoy meetings with my team. I feel like I am making an impact at the company through my work and that the company has the potential to make an impact on the field. The work is challenging but achievable and I feel like I have a clear set of goals and ideological priorities to guide me. I have a list of professional contacts and mentors that I feel have helped guide me on my journey and who I reach out to and maintain connection with. I enjoy reading various books, from fantasy novels to books about life, and feel like I learn something from them or find peace in reading. I can make a very good cup of coffee, and wake up every morning to sit and watch the sunrise and enjoy the moments of the sunset. I do not live in San Diego and have met new people wherever I am and enjoy spending time with them doing a variety of activities, whether its wine nights or partying (post covid joys) or simply exploring the world around us. I am appreciative of music and the arts in some way, and regularly engage myself in that world, whether its admiration or things of my own creation. I study languages for some time each week, and find enjoyment in getting to know other people and cultures through their tongues. I have plans to travel to another country as soon as I can make time to do so. I am physically fit and engage myself in exercise regularly. I am a good cook when I need to be, but usually eat simply. I live off of very little money and do not spend much time on material possessions or temporary pleasures.
Ok, lets turn that into goals:
Goal #1: Get a job doing what you love
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Goal #2: Maintain connection with reading
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Goal #3: Make a very good cup of coffee
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Goal #4: Find peace in small moments
What this looks like:
Goal #5: Moving out of San Diego
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Goal #6: Meet new people and maintain connections
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Goal #7: Appreciation of the arts and language
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Goal #8: Travel and explore the world
Goal #9: Maintain a healthy body
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Goal #10: Give up reliance on material or temporary pleasures
The things I buy should (1) be necessary for survival and function, (2) improve my flow state, or (3) significantly benefit my happiness for a long period of time.