Updated 6/21/2026

Hi, I’m Jules! I'm a creative Christian who loves building things — from videogames and TTRPGs to intentional community spaces like my theology book club — and I'm looking to date another Christian. I'm 25, work remotely in marketing at a nonprofit, and live in Park Slope, Brooklyn.

Dating apps are designed in ways that can be addictive and encourage us to focus on the superficial. This is a date-me-doc: a longer, more intentional alternative.

a bit about me

• At my best: Highly creative. A curious learner. Community-oriented — I love my friends deeply and strive to make them feel cared for. Ambitious and driven. Deeply authentic to who I am and honest about my shortcomings. Disarmingly funny and energetic. Good at making things happen and a great community organizer (I’ve hosted gatherings ranging from Veggietales-themed potlucks to tax filing parties to indie TTRPG game nights, and I currently run an ongoing theology book club). The word friends use to describe me the most is “thoughtful.”
• Hobbies:

  • Creativity: I make indie videogames, zines, illustrations, and stickers. I’ve been recently getting into photography, making indie TTRPGs, and linocut printmaking. You can see some of my creative work here:

    Roman Hyacinths

  • Other interests: reading (mostly history and theology as of late, although fiction has my heart), cooking (especially soups and stews), sustainable fashion and re-commerce, penpalling (I have four penpals from Nebraska to Sri Lanka), videogames (favorites include the Mass Effect trilogy, Hades, Subnautica, Citizen Sleeper, Disco Elysium, Fallout 4, Fields of Mistria, and Horizon: Zero Dawn) and TTRPGs (I play D&D, but I’m particularly interested in indie TTRPGs), skiing, volunteering

  • Things I’d be particularly open to trying: gardening (I used to do a lot of it, but haven't in years), rock climbing (top rope), cosplaying/costume design, pottery, most sports (but especially tennis and soccer)

• Religion: I’m a nondenominational protestant Christian currently holding membership at a Baptist church (although I have significant concerns about the SBC), and my faith is the cornerstone of my life and ethical framework.
• Family Plans: I love babysitting and mentoring kids (I currently volunteer as a Big / mentor to a 13-year-old girl through Big Brother Big Sister), but I can’t have biological kids. I’d be happy to adopt if that’s where God leads, but I currently feel called to spend my time and skills in other ways. I’m probably not a good fit for someone who wants to have kids in the immediate future. That said, I want to be meaningfully and generously involved involved in nurturing the next generation regardless of whether I have children of my own.
• Career: I work in marketing at a nonprofit. In my early twenties I used to care more about climbing the career ladder, but I now prioritize just having a good job where I can do good work for a good cause with good people. I also do freelance web design and development here and there, most recently for Christian authors and speakers.
• Political & Moral Leanings: I hold to beliefs typically thought of as “small-o” orthodox within the reformed tradition (e.g., I hold to a consistent life ethic). I almost always lean left in other areas (e.g., environmentalism and Israel’s occupation/treatment of Palestine). I store my emergency fund in a B Corp mutual bank that invests into mission-driven organizations in New England, get the meat I cook with from independent, small-scale family farms via a meat share program, and try to avoid excess consumerism, especially on impulse. I prioritize giving to Christian organizations that effectively tackle global poverty, like this one.
• Some other things:
  • I’m 5’1”
  • I’m decently healthy and exercise regularly for long-term health!
  • I'm Wasian — 50% Korean, 50% Greek. My Korean grandparents and Greek great-grandparents immigrated to the States, and I think cultural identity is a gift!
  • I am an Enneagram 3w2 (but I present more as a 2). I’m an ENFJ-A but too close to the middle in most categories for that to feel relevant.
  • I’m introverted when it comes to how I recharge, but I’m an externalizer in how I process and am very people-motivated.
  • I have two brothers, a sister-in-law, and parents who live in Boston. I’m particularly close with my mom.
  • I’m organized in the “makes lists / spreadsheets, remembers birthdays, and organizes plans” way, but not in the “I put everything away as soon as I’m done using it” way.
  • I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. I’m fine with a partner drinking in moderation, but smoking and recreational drug usage are dealbreakers for me.
  • I’m fairly direct communicator, although I never use that as an excuse to be blunt, mean, or argumentative. Some people love it, but some people prefer to dance around issues more than I do!
  • Some values I particularly care about for myself and others are integrity, humility and a willingness to admit “I was wrong,” intellectual honesty, vulnerability, and authenticity.

a few pics

Skiing at Stratton with friends!

Fit pic w/ my three tattoos

With a dear friend and mentor of mine!

Some fit pics!

Should we bring headscarves back in style??

Friends stopped by as I tabled at an art market!

Me and my fav person, my mom

who I’m looking for

• I’m looking to date someone who is A) a protestant Christian who professes the Apostles’ Creed B) committed to his relationship with God and C) involved in his local church. For secondary issues, I value curiosity, thoughtful dialog, and shared spiritual growth above perfect alignment.
• I’m not trying to speedrun marriage, but I believe that dating is best when done intentionally. I’d love to be with someone who approaches relationships thoughtfully, prayerfully, and with a long-term mindset.
• Relationally, I’m drawn to people who are gentle, smart, hardworking, and able to communicate openly and non-defensively.
• I’m not into LDR, so I think I’d only consider people living in NYC at the moment!

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