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I decided to use one of the Engineering solution templates from Notion, so my problem is figuring out how to use this without making people think I need a group of overpaid college graduates to fix me.
But really, my goal is to find a loving, rewarding relationship with a female I am interested in and for whom I am willing to sacrifice the time necessary to build a relationship. Someone who is kind, intelligent, silly, curious, courageous, and empathetic. And very importantly, someone who is emotionally mature enough to realize the kind of work and sacrifices that a relationship entails.
I am pretty flexible about the actual location, since my job is usually remote. Buttt I am a sucker for good weather - I’ve lived in the Bay Area for most of my life and in Malaga, Spain for a little bit so I am not going to pretend that living in Norway would be perfect for me. But love transcends all, right? 😛 I’ll try to use some of the existing fields in this template that I find are surprisingly appropriate or just funny.
Ideally - find someone who is compatible with me in a relationship sense by showing them this document and some pictures of me, at which point they will fall hopelessly in love.
Meeting more guys. Just kidding! If you think we would be two cubes in an ice tray, regardless of what your gender is, then totally message me and we can haaanggg. See “Implementation and Rollout Plan” for contact details.
Meet a lot more girls with the openness to a relationship or just a friendship depending on how we feel about each other. I see either as a win, but I want to be clear that my intention going into a meeting is 80% to date and 20% to be friends. To be clear, I love having a relationship that has the foundation of a friendship. But I am not sure how this is possible unless we read this doc, signed a binding contract to be friends, erased our memories, and then one day felt that we could be more.
I think it’s easier going from “Ah I don’t see this working out as a relationship, but we can totally drink boba like every 5 weeks” rather than “Hey we drink boba like every 5 weeks, but I want to see you again tomorrow.”