Written by Howie Chan

(Read the Feb 1, 2026 issue HERE)

🎯 Scenario:

You’re a leadership coach and you’ve been invited to speak at a leadership retreat for 100 mid-level managers.

It’s your shot at a year-long consulting contract.

The topic? “Empathy in Leadership.”

Everyone before you has said the same thing: listen more, care more, feel more.

But you? You’re about to make them feel something different.


🚫 The Forgettable Keynote

Title: Leading with Empathy in Challenging Times

You walk on stage in a blazer and slacks. You open with, “Leadership is about empathy. In times of uncertainty, people need to feel heard and understood.”

You share a story about a manager who overcame burnout, quote a Harvard Business Review stat, and close with, “Remember: people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

The audience nods.

They clap politely.

And then they check their phones.

Nothing wrong with it — it’s smart, safe, and professional.

But safe never stands out.


The Standout Version

Title: Empathy Is Overrated — And Why You’re Pedaling Yourself into Burnout